Today, I asked a 10 year old boy, what do you want to become in future? His expression was little bit surprising. When i asked him the question, he looks up and down, here and there and make himself in silent mode. He was speechless, baffled. I was not responsible for his situation. Actually, his father forced me to asked the question. His father told me that just take a short interview of him.
This is really unbelievable that you are asking a 10 year old child that "what is your aim of life". Means, at this early age, you are started expecting from him.This is so ridiculous. You are just bothering him the mountain of expectation on his small shoulder at this early age.
I have seen many people saying that, i will make my child Doctor, Engineer, Scientist, and now a days trending film star or sports personality. But, still away from what he actually wants.
Many people says that - "Studying hard to become first in the class is his responsibility".
Is this really a responsibility? Means, all others are failing day by day in taking responsibility and you are expecting a child to do so. Have you taken your responsibility correctly and effectively, when you were child? or even I ?
"This is really a matter a concern".
A small child needs freedom. A small child need love and affection not the expectation. A small child need the lesson of right or wrong. A small child needs mentor in his/her parents not the strict teacher who always force him to be topper of class. You should be very careful in his/her choice. Be a friend to them. This will take him to a new level not your over loaded expectation.
Let them to go with their choice. Give them the freedom of thoughts, Provide them the area of creativity. He will definitely gives you beyond your EXPECTATION.
All the best ! Stay connected !
This is really unbelievable that you are asking a 10 year old child that "what is your aim of life". Means, at this early age, you are started expecting from him.This is so ridiculous. You are just bothering him the mountain of expectation on his small shoulder at this early age.
I have seen many people saying that, i will make my child Doctor, Engineer, Scientist, and now a days trending film star or sports personality. But, still away from what he actually wants.
Many people says that - "Studying hard to become first in the class is his responsibility".
Is this really a responsibility? Means, all others are failing day by day in taking responsibility and you are expecting a child to do so. Have you taken your responsibility correctly and effectively, when you were child? or even I ?
"This is really a matter a concern".
A small child needs freedom. A small child need love and affection not the expectation. A small child need the lesson of right or wrong. A small child needs mentor in his/her parents not the strict teacher who always force him to be topper of class. You should be very careful in his/her choice. Be a friend to them. This will take him to a new level not your over loaded expectation.
Let them to go with their choice. Give them the freedom of thoughts, Provide them the area of creativity. He will definitely gives you beyond your EXPECTATION.
All the best ! Stay connected !
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